This is the weekend after International Women’s Day so, obviously, today is NOT International Women’s Day. On Friday, my Facebook feed was FULL of messages celebrating women; pictures of pioneers in science, sport and politics. Some of the words used to describe these women were, “Amazing, inspiring, incredible, awesome, brave, optimistic and beautiful.”
I’ve chosen today to post, because the people I’m talking to, may not have been able to look at the exciting and inspiring things that were going on on Friday. And because it would be lovely to think that we can talk about women’s issues every day.
What Is Women’s Day All About?
According to the Women’s Day website , the day, (which has been celebrated for over a century) is a global day, celebrating the social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women. The day also marks a call to action for accelerating gender parity.”
It’s a brilliant idea, and completely relevant in today’s climate.
Is Women’s Day For EVERYONE?
Of course, it should be, but maybe for some women, it might not feel like it.
This message is for you if none of those words above feel like they fit;
- If you weren’t sure you’d make it out of bed this morning;
- If you sometimes nip to the loo because you need to cry and can’t do it anywhere else
- If you hide the bruises under a long-sleeved shirt
- If you are battling with chronic pain and exhaustion
- If the memories from your childhood pop up and floor you when you’re trying to forget
- If you have no idea who you really are because you’ve tried to fit in for so long
- If you down the rest of the bottle on a Friday night so you can escape from your reality for a while…
I’m speaking to you if you feel the opposite of the words above… hopeless, useless, broken, worthless, a waste of space, a coward, ugly and depressed.
Women’s Day IS For You Too!
Even though it might not feel like it, the day is perhaps especially for you.
The day celebrates women, and you are a woman. End of. You don’t have to have climbed a mountain, discovered a cure for disease, built a business, overturned a corrupt government. We are celebrating you, just as you are, because every woman has something to offer this world.
Every single one of us has demons. We all have parts of ourselves that we’re not happy with. No one is immune from internal negative talk or unhealthy habits. In short, not one of us is perfect. And that’s OK.
I’m not diminishing some of the achievements that were shown on Friday, there really are some awe-inspiring stories out there! But actually, if you are living in the deepest, darkest pit of depression, or facing the scenarios above, even functioning on the smallest scale is equally amazing.
This post is to tell you that you’re not forgotten, that we’re celebrating you too, not just on 8th March, but every day.
If you are affected by any of the issues discussed here, why not try a free 15 minute “getting to know you” phonecall, to see if therapy might help you. Contact me here.